INCLINATIONS NOVEMBER 2005

Monthly Newsletter from the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of the Eastern Slopes

 

 

Services

Every Sunday at 10:00 a.m.

Sunday School at 9:00 a.m.

Minister:           Rev. Mary Giles Edes

revmge@mac.com

323-8585

 

UUFES Meetinghouse

30 Tamworth Rd. (Rt. 113)

PO Box 474

Tamworth, NH 03886

President:         Rick Friend, President

friendm@adelphia.net

569-4812

 

Calendar

 

Services:

 

Nov. 6

Humanist David Niose --"Change Your Culture, Not Your Values"  A board member of the American Humanist Association and author of numerous articles, Attorney David Niose from Fitchberg, Massachusetts, will discuss the humanist movement and the issues involved in the current cultural and political climate. (Lunch following)

 

After the Sunday, November 6 service with David Niose of the American Humanist Association, Stephen and Wendy Gaal in North Sandwich are hosting a light luncheon for people who wish to meet with David and continue the conversation about Humanism.  Please join us!  Call the Gaals at 284-7734 for directions or more information. 

 

Nov. 13

Rev. Mary, "Taking Stock" Some thoughts about the meaning and place of money in our lives and how our faith may inform both. (Preceded by Newcomer Breakfast at 9:15. See Membership Cmtee article.)

Nov. 20

Rev. Mary, Thanksgiving Service and Guest At Your Table kick off.

Also:
5:00 PM - Community Thanksgiving Service
Sunday afternoon, November 20th at 5:00, we will be having a Community Thanksgiving Service at the Tamworth Congregational Church, just down the road from the Meetinghouse. The Revs. Heidi Franz-Dale, Tom Abugelis, and Yours Truly will be leading the service which will, I hope, be the first of many such collaborations. Already we are looking ahead to Martin Luther King Day, Earth Day, and possibly Good Friday, as opportunities for us to worship together. It is our hope that our three congregations might find ways to work together on community projects as well, as we move ahead as new neighbors.

Nov. 27

To Be Announced

 

If would like your birthday included, please pass along the date to Kathy Burnell at 447-6796 or kburnell47@verizon.net.

 

Minister’s Schedule for November


General Schedule

Mondays off
Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, by appointment
Friday, writing day

Specifics
Nov. 1-3: District Minister’s Meeting in Burlington, VT
Nov. 8: Tamworth Clergy UUFES Meetinghouse
Nov. 15: NH/VT District Conference Planning Department, Concord
Nov. 18: Minister turns FIFTY; Divas concert South Church Portsmouth

 

Religious Education News

 

Our religious education program is off to a great start.  The following individuals have generously volunteered their time and energy to teach classes on Sunday mornings:  Russ Maidment, Brenda Taylor and Erin Wright-Stanten with our youngest group.  Jim Clemons, Jo Anne Rainville and Howard Stanten with the seven to nine year olds.  David Emerson, Steve Kull and Willow Whitehouse for the nine to eleven set; and finishing out with the over 12 group we have Donna Polhamus, Dianne Sinclair and Jessie Wright.  Thank you for your time, energy and commitment.

 

Our Sunday morning helpers so far have been Helen Crowell and Tina Craig.  Please see Joy if you would like more information about being a Sunday morning helper or have your name added to the list.

 

Our four to six-year-old group is using a curriculum titled We Are Many, We Are One.  Their lesson on October 23 was titled Old and Young Make Good Friends.  They enjoyed a special morning with two visitors from the Fellowship, Willie Mork and Bob Young.  Everyone brought in their baby pictures, told some memorable stories, and enjoyed yummy treats courtesy of Erin Wright-Stanten.  A good time was had by all, and some new friends were made in the process.

 

By the time you read this we will have had our first UUFES family sleepover, which was held on Saturday October 29th.  In keeping with the season and some great suggestions we are going to enjoy autumn activities, carving pumpkins and bobbing for apples, along with eating Lois' wonderful donuts - off a string of course.  Andy Davis and Bill Huntley have been kind enough to offer entertainment in story and song.  Steve Kull is going to sustain us in the morning with a pancake breakfast.  Thanks Everyone!!

 

Sunday October 30th happens to be a 5th Sunday.  It has long been a dream to have an occasional children's chapel service but the time or place was never right.  Well, finally it has all come together.  Every 5th Sunday there will be a Children's Chapel service lead by Rev. Mary in the library for the kids from 9:00 - 9:45.  You will then receive your Orders of Service from those same children as you enter the service.  Please take a moment to recognize them, thanks.

 

Chalice Lighter Program

 

Very soon, you will be hearing about the new and revised Chalice Lighters Program.  This program is managed by each District of the UUA.  In the past, we, as individuals, have been asked to contribute monies yearly to the Chalice Lighters Program.  Individual district churches seeking grant monies for special programs or projects would then write and apply for these funds.  The Chalice Lighter committee would review these requests and award grants.  We have been a recipient of these funds twice in the past six years. 

 

We applied for such a grant this spring but due to minimal funds in the Chalice Lighter account (stemming from lack of support), we were not selected.  That's the bad news.  The good news is the whole program has been revised.  The District is now selecting a church to be the "called" Chalice Lighters Congregation and they will encourage all other churches in NH/VT to strongly support the efforts of this one fellowship.  UUFES was selected to be the first Chalice Lighters Congregation in our District.  What this means to us is that we will receive 100% of the revenues received from this year’s Chalice Lighter outreach program.  This is a great honor and great opportunity for our fellowship.

 

I am writing this article to encourage you to give generously to the Chalice Lighters Program.  You may ask "Why not just give my donation directly to UUFES?"  Here's why: Being involved in district-wide activities and efforts is important!  We have received thousands of dollars in grants from our district and the UUA over the years.  This simply would not have happened if we hadn't shown our commitment by contributing our Fair Share dollars each year and being an active member of our District team.  Also, Chalice Lighters is an invaluable program.  It enables our district churches to accomplish goals that they couldn't have met on their own.  It is neighbor helping neighbor.  We are a small denomination with an important message for the world and we have to look to each other to have the strength to make sure our voices are heard.

 

Message from Mary

 

Thanksgiving is coming! Thanksgiving is my favorite "holiday."

Whether one is Deist, Theist, Atheist, or Agnostic, Pagan, Hindu, Christian, Muslim, Jew, or None of the Above, we all know what it is and what it means to be thankful. Gratitude is a welling up and over that needs no named recipient.

Needless to say we have much for which to be grateful this year. We are getting settled into our long-awaited home and welcoming new members and friends almost weekly. Joy Maidment is bringing great energy and focus to our religious education program. And we have been selected as a Breakthrough Congregation by the Unitarian Universalist Association (UUA) Growth Team.

What is a Breakthrough Congregation? It is an annual award given by the UUA to only four congregations nationwide. As a result, UUFES has been invited to make a presentation at our General Assembly in St. Louis this coming June, as one of those four UU congregations in the country who have made inspiring breakthroughs in areas including ministry, numerical and spiritual growth, worship, and stewardship. It is the hope of the UUA - and one I know we share - that our story may inspire other small fellowships to follow in our footsteps or to forge their own path with our story as a guiding light and hopeful companion for their journey.

I am so proud to be a part of this unfolding adventure that is UUFES - proud and thankful!

See you at the meetinghouse!

In gratitude, and love,
Mary

 

Membership Committee

 

CIRCLE DINNERS

 

The Membership Committee continues to arrange Circle Dinners in the homes of UUFES members on a monthly basis. Rev. Mary and Steve attend these dinners as well and new and old UUFES members. It is a time to share a meal and get to know one another better in a small setting. If you would like to host one of these dinners or be a guest, please contact any member of the Membership Committee and let us know of your interest.

 

MEMBER PROFILE

 

Ted and Bobbi Hoyt joined UUFES in 2004; Bobbi has been a UU for the past 30 years starting at the Church on the River, Memphis, TN and Ted has found his spirituality in nature. Ted’s work at the beautiful Purity Springs Resort in Madison gives him many opportunities to experience the natural world that he loves. Ted is the President of the resort and Bobbi owns and manages King Pine’s Ice House ski shop. Both Ted and Bobbi state, however, that what has really kept them busy over the years is raising their five sons! All of the boys are now college graduates and well launched into the world, giving the Hoyts the time to build together their "empty nester" home on Lake Ossipee where they have become kayak enthusiasts.

 

Bobbi was an integral part of the Building Committee and now works on the meetinghouse’s landscaping; Ted is our Treasurer and is a member of the Finance Committee. We at UUFES are so grateful to have this talented and energetic couple in our midst. Be sure to welcome them when next you see them at Sunday services.

 

UU WORKSHOPS

 

A series of three workshops has been planned by Rev. Mary and the Membership Committee. The purpose of these workshops is educational and exploratory. New members, old members, potential members and people with an interest and curiosity about Unitarian Universalism are all welcome. The dates are as follows: Wednesday evenings November 9th and 16th and noontime (including lunch) after Sunday service November 20th. Please watch your e-mail or call for more details.

 

NEWCOMER BREAKFAST

 

The Membership Committee will host a Newcomer Breakfast on Sunday, November 13th at 9:15 AM at the Meetinghouse. It is a continental breakfast with small tables set up for conversation prior to Sunday service which begin at 10:00 AM. ALL are welcome; as we mentioned in a prior column regarding the definition of "newcomer"…if you think you are one, then you are!

 

Guest at Your Table

 

Guest at Your Table has been an important part of UUSC, and of UU culture, since 1975. The program made its UUSC debut following then Institutional Advancement Director Warren Salinger's trip to the Netherlands. While there, he was inspired by a similar organization's program, entitled "Gast aan Tafel," to educate its supporters about its work and to raise vital funds. That program used colorful boxes that the whole family could enjoy. Warren immediately began work with UUSC's staff in Massachusetts to adapt the idea for use in Unitarian Universalist homes nationwide — and even worldwide! Each year since 1975, involvement in Guest at Your Table has grown tremendously, strengthening UUs' connections to our shared principles and helping to challenge injustice

 

You can keep this spirit and tradition alive. Put a Guest at Your Table box on your family's table and discuss together what it means to welcome a guest to your table.  The Social Concerns Committee will make announcement about this program and will have boxes and envelopes to distribute.  We will collect this the Sunday before Thanksgiving…or sometime thereafter!  Thank you in advance.

 

Fellowship Council

The Fellowship Council met on October 11th in the sanctuary. This is not a policy setting gathering but a listening post. It is also a time to hold conversation on a topic of UUFES-wide interest. Committee chairs or reps shared their activities and future plans. Lisa Herder, our webmistress (and a managerial consultant as well), came to meet the UUFES cast of characters and to discuss how we might organize information sent to her to make our web site a welcoming reflection of our Fellowship. Lisa asked good questions and offered ideas in the way of organization and communication.

 

Jim Pittman is working on a proposed calendar program that should be up and running on our website before long.

Kathy Burnell welcomes feedback on Inclinations which will be edited by David Emerson for posting on the website.

There is a need to reconstruct the "advertising" committee into a more inclusive Communications Committee and volunteers are being sought. Although Joan Sherman has recently resigned from the committee, she is ready to work with any committees that want help getting their information on the radio.

The Fellowship Council will meet again on February 7th. It is an open meeting and a very good way for newcomers and members alike to get a bird’s eye view on the total picture of Fellowship activities.

Mini-fundraiser for a new printer: Cider and cooking apples for sale by Eleanor Jenkins from the Uplands Apple Farm. 1/2 gallon for $3 and one gallon for $5. Apples for $.50 a pound: Jonathan and York Imperial available. Please call 539-4843 to arrange delivery.

 

WISH LIST

 

Please search your attic, basement or garage…UUFES needs the following—and thank you for your generosity!!

General

¨      TV cart

¨      Narrow table with long drop leaves for northeast wall of Sanctuary—to be used for meetings, small group meals or material display.

¨      Nesting tables for Sanctuary to assist someone sitting or in a wheel chair for coffee hour

¨      In-house digital camera

¨      Please contact Donna Polhamus if you have any of the above items to contribute.

 

Religious Education

¨      Microscope

¨      Stereoscope

¨      Binoculars

¨      Magnifying Glasses

¨      Please contact Joy Maidment (Director, Religious Education) if you can contribute any of the above items

 

Contact Denise D’Eri if your committee has requests for the wish list.

 

 

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Please send changes of address, notices and requests to be added to or removed from the mailing list to:

 

UUFES --- Inclinations

K. Burnell, Editor

PO Box 2785

Conway, NH 03818

kburnell47@verizon.net

 

Deadline for December issue:  Saturday, Nov. 26