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Part III: Passages and Memorials

Margaret Borden "Margie" Fennell died September 21, 1994 following a long illness. Margie joined the Fellowship March 3,1986 and was an active member until her death at the age of 83. It is my understanding that while she was living in Lexington, MA she was superintendent of the largest-enrollment of UU Religious Education programs in the U.S. Margie combined a highly independent spirit, intellectual keenness and wry sense of humor. Roderick Forsman conducted the memorial service for her at the Gibson Center in North Conway on October 1, 1994. She was well known and loved by a large circle of friends outside UUFES as well.

Sylvia Rehder Witherell, beloved wife of Warren F. Witherell, died in Concord, NH on April 26, 1996, just one day shy of her 84th birthday. She had succumbed to pancreatic cancer. A service for the celebration of her life was held on May 18, 1996 at the Chickville Church in Center Ossipee. She had been a member of this Fellowship since March 31, 1985. Sylvia's loving and kindly nature, her warmth of spirit and reliable good humor remain vivid in the memories of those of us privileged to know her. The beautiful chalice which adds significantly to our worship services was given to the Fellowship by her family as a memorial.

Janet Parker Boyle Miller died of lymphoma cancer on November 11, 1996 at the age of 79. She was a "Founding Mother of the Fellowship" and beloved wife of C. Russell Miller. Our Fellowship lost a cherished friend and vibrant personality in her passing. Her indomitable spirit and zest for life were in full display to the last. A service for the celebration of her life was held in the North Fryeburg Universalist Chapel on June 22, 1997, led by Roderick Forsman. The UUFES Memorial Fund was generously given a gift of $1000 from Russell in her memory.

Although not formally a member of UUFES, Donald W. Wilson actively participated in the life of this religious community with his wife, Louise. Don died November 21, 1987 in Fryeburg, ME. A memorial service was held on November 27th at the North Fryeburg Universalist Chapel, Rod Forsman conducting.

His widow, Louise Dickinson Wilson, died on February 26, 1999 at the age of 93. She had been in failing health for several years. Louise was born in Holyoke, MA on January 27, 1906. She was a graduate of Mount Holyoke College. After receiving her Masters in Library Science degree from New Haven State Teachers College, Louise was a librarian in the Hartford, CT school system for many years before she and Don moved to Sandwich, NH. They moved to Fryeburg, ME in 1982. Louise loved the small size and intimacy of UUFES as she knew it years ago.

"Foster Wardner Gilroy, son of Wardner and Frederika Gilroy, died at his home, June 4, 2002 after a long illness. He was born August 12, 1951 in Huntingdon, NY. After obtaining his B.A. degree from Hofstra College, Foster earned his J.D. degree from Western New England Law School and was a representative to the Student Bar Association. After the death of his wife, Charlene Kemp Gilroy, he made his home with his parents in Highland Park in Fryeburg. He is also survived by his first wife, Linda Bauer Gilroy of Melville, NY" (Inclinations, July, 2002). A Service of Remembrance was held at the Brighton Medical Center in Portland, ME on 10/29/02, conducted by Roderick Forsman. Foster's father was receiving rehabilitation services at the Center for injuries suffered in a fall several months earlier.

The courageous life of Peggy Erskine ended July 13, 2001. A Memorial Service to celebrate her life was held at Runnells Hall on July 17th, presided over by Rev. Dan Schatz. Many of Peggy's "friends and family members delivered moving tributes to the indomitable spirit of a woman who faced multiple challenges throughout her life, whose curiosity and intellect were boundless, and whose concern for others shone through, despite her own suffering. How fitting it is that UUFES President JoAnne Rainville announced at the end of the service that our fund for those in need has been officially designated as the 'Peggy Erskine Caring and Sharing Fund.' She will be sadly missed" (Inclinations, August, 2001).

LaVonne Wright, beloved wife of Edward Wright, died in December, 2001 as a result of a fall down a stairway at a restaurant while she and Ed were in Rome, Italy. A memorial service conducted by Rev. Schatz at Runnells Hall heard tributes and touching reflections from Ed and their two sons and one daughter. LaVonne will be remembered, in part, for her gentle spirit and keen intellect. Prior to her retirement, she had been a registered nurse, a special education teacher, school psychologist, special education director, and lawyer.

Marilyn F. "Mac" McKenna died unexpectedly at her apartment in Hanover, NH. Mac was a Founder of this Fellowship, the third person to sign the membership book on November 15, 1981. She had served four terms as President, 1982-84 and 1989-91. She "retired" from the Census Bureau and moved to Albany just months before the fledgling Fellowship formed. Along with her leading role in UUFES activities over several years, as well as in NH/VT District affairs, she also was active in civic affairs, serving as town clerk, tax collector, and moderator for Albany. Her liberal voice permeated all of these activities. At Kendal, her assisted-living facility in Hanover, she was a highly visible volunteer.

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